5 easy ways to bond with your baby as a new mother, you might be wondering how you can bond with your baby. It is normal if you do not immediately feel a bond with your child after birth. This can be due to various reasons such as exhaustion from a long labor and delivery, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the heavy responsibility of motherhood. Even if you did not have the opportunity to enjoy physical closeness with your baby immediately after birth for whatever reason, there is still plenty of time for you to establish a close connection with your child. Read on for 5 easy ways to bond with your baby after birth.
Newborn babies can see objects at breastfeeding distance. When feeding your baby, be sure to maintain eye contact and you will be able to communicate your love to him or her.
Your touch is very reassuring to your baby. Massaging your baby daily is a wonderful way to bond with your child. It is important to use good quality massage oil that is suitable for infants such as olive oil, sweet almond or sunflower oil, and when massaging, make sure that your hands are open and relaxed. To learn more about infant massage techniques, you can take a class on it or read a book on the topic.
You can also bond with your baby during bath time and enjoy the skin contact as you wash him or her. After bathing and patting your baby dry, you can also communicate your love by massaging your little one with a mild moisturizing lotion to prevent skin dryness.
Your baby can recognize the sound of your voice and hearing your voice gives your child a sense of security. Talk to your baby whenever you can such as during bath time, nappy changes, or even when you leave the room.
You can also read aloud to your baby regularly -- this is not only a great bonding opportunity, but also stimulates your child's language development.
Babies understand and respond to hugs and kisses. Take time to bond with your baby through cuddles and kisses, and relax and enjoy every precious moment you spend with your little one.
5. Share favorite activities with your baby
While it is good to take a break from your baby from time to time, you can bond with your baby by involving him or her in your favorite activities where possible. Even simple activities such as taking your baby with you for a walk in the park can be a bonding experience -- you can point interesting things out to your baby, while at the same time getting some fresh air together. All it requires is a little advance planning - for example, if you intend to take your baby with you for a shopping trip, be sure to pack diapers, an extra change of clothes and any other essential items your baby may need.
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